Adversity Is Better Than Comfort

Posted on June 08, 2010 by Ronald T. Brown, Ph.D.

“We are not meant, in the grand scheme of life, to be happy and comfortable. Rather we are meant to forge our characters on the anvil of adversity…

Most of us experience monumental periods of adversity — to burn away our self-deception. These devastating setbacks propel us in our quest to become fully and creatively human.

Sometimes we get stuck, so stuck, in fact, that only great pain will impel us to move. It’s then that the power of adversity is revealed. But to see it requires a new way of looking at the world, a radical shifting of perspective.

The walls of your adversity might seem too high to scale. Never mind. Don’t look up and don’t look down. Look straight ahead, find that first foothold, and climb. Soon that wall will become merely a stepping stone to the next phase of your life — and (surprise!) your next adversity. At that time recall the concept of sweat equity and realize that when you leverage your learning from adversity past and present there is no failure and no wasted time.”

— Al Weatherhead and Fred Feldman, The Power of Adversity