Steps In A New Direction

Posted on July 17, 2008 by Ronald T. Brown, Ph.D.

“We must not be afraid of dreaming the seemingly impossible if we want the seemingly impossible to become a reality.” – Vaclav Havel

Robert H. Goddard, the driving force behind America’s early space programs, is today called “the father of space flight.” But when he first imagined that a rocket could be propelled through outer space, the New York Times ridiculed his dream, saying he lacked even “the knowledge ladled out daily in high schools!” With no atmosphere in outer space, and therefore nothing for an engine to thrust against, the NY Times explained a rocket could not move an inch in outer space. That was in 1920. Thankfully, Goddard stuck to his dream.

Chasing a dream takes wisdom, focus, and courage. Yet if we courageously take steps in the direction of our dreams – rather than allowing ourselves to be distracted by people who are content to live a mediocre life – exciting things will occur!

** When chasing a dream – whether a new house, a new career, or a dream vacation –

there are 6 characteristics that mark individuals who tend to successfully accomplish those dreams

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1. First, they are driven by a strong sense of Passion and Belief

. They have a defining conviction that compels them forward in a specific direction – toward a unique Dream. There is a part in each of us, deep inside our spirit, that searches to be apart of something truly significant – that craves big goals and noteworthy accomplishments. And men and woman who make a significant and lasting difference are (almost always) those embrace this inner urge with serious thought and focus.  They have taken the time to clarify what their dreams are. 

Whether it be meeting the needs of the poor and needy, starting a new business, helping people connect with God, going back to school, or planning a dream vacation – successful individuals have taken the time to clarify what they really want to do and accomplish. They are also not afraid to go after a dream that seems unlikely, or even unattainable. Instead they allow their dreams to change them - to change how they listen, invent, imagine, test new approaches, learn, and expand their capacities.

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They have chosen not only to dream, but are also determined to take the specific steps needed to reach their dream

. They are not only passionate about pursuing a dream; they have taken the time to clarify the series of steps needed to bring their passion into reality.

It is fine to create positive thoughts about the future, but it is concrete actions that make the difference. The people who are most successful at achieving their dreams and goals are those who are actively moving toward them. Simple, yet true!

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They embrace that steps of Faith into the unknown will be needed if they will ever reach their desired destination

. They have chosen to be driven by Courage, not Fear.  They understand that active steps out of their comfort zone, into the unknown, will be needed if they are going to make their dreams a reality. And they are ready to take those steps.

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They have taken time to creatively develop and implement Systems

.  Systems that keep them focused on their dreams and goals – and which drive them toward those goals.  They hire skilled staff to fill needed roles; established ways to track progress; have individuals who provide counsel and expertise; and have friends who are holding them accountable for progress. Not only do they have a well thought through plan – and have taken the time to implement systems to help them stick to that plan.

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They have a high level of personal discipline to use whatever systems they have created

.  They develop personal rituals and habits that keep them proactively moving in one direction – in the direction of their Dreams and Goals. They are driven by self-discipline and self-control, not their lusts and passions.

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Finally, individuals who effectively attain their dreams take time each day to actively visualize the future they desire

. While taking action and implementing systems is essential, visualizing one’s preferred future is critical for increasing motivation and courage. Our minds are constantly creating pictures… so why not use these mental images in a proactive way?

A similar, yet vital habit is to set aside 15 minutes every day to think about one’s dreams and goals. To consider how their daily actions are aligned (or not) to their dreams.

** Take time to develop these same characteristics and disciplines in your life as you courageously step in a new direction toward your dreams. Believe in yourself, and your dreams, and one day you will experience the joy and satisfaction of living out those dreams!