New Words For A New Year - PART 2
Posted on January 03, 2009 by Ronald T. Brown, Ph.D.
10 Pathways To Positive Speech
#1. Speak No Evil
Say only positive statements. Let words of kindness flow from your tongue. Respond instead of react by carefully editing what you are going to say.
#2. Hear No Evil
Refuse to listen to gossip, slander, and other negative forms of speech. If avoiding the conversation is impossible, have another "positive" topic you can bring up to change the subject.
#3. Don’t Rationalize Destructive Speech
Excuses like “But it’s true” or “I’m only joking” just don’t cut it.
#4. See No Evil
Judge people favorably, the way you would want them to judge you. Remember, if you weren’t there, you don’t know. And, even if you were, you may have missed what happened in context.
#5. Beware of Speaking Evil Without Saying An Evil Word
Even your body language can communicate disrespect.
#6. Be Humble; Avoid Arrogance
This will be your greatest weapon against destructive speech. Recognize the Ultimate Source of your accomplishments.
#7. Beware Repeating Information
Loose lips sink ships. Even positive information needs permission before being repeated.
#8. Honesty Really Is The Best Policy - Most of the Time
Be careful to always tell the truth unless it will hurt others, break your own privacy, or publicize your accomplishments. Strive for honesty in everything you do.
#9. Learn to Say, “I’m Sorry.”
Everyone makes mistakes. If you’ve spoken badly about someone, clear it up immediately. Apologize, ask for forgiveness, and let them know it won’t happen again.
#10. Forgive
If you have been wronged, let it go. The ability to forgive is for your own well being, not just theirs. Those who can forgive live healthier, happier, and less stressful lives.
REVISED FROM - "Gossip: Ten Pathways To Eliminate It From Your Life And Transform Your Soul” - Lori Palatnik & Bob Burg
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